As a child, I hated the idea of “daddies”. They were always busy or had other kids to keep them busy. And I hated the idea of them having a job. I’m not talking about the kids’ parents. I mean the husbands. I hated having to go through the long and tedious process of explaining things to my daddies that I didn’t understand.
The way I saw it, daddies are like the people that live on the weekends. They are the people who you’ll sit in your house and watch Netflix through you windows, but you don’t have to talk to them once they’re done.
I remember being told by the first one I ever met that daddies dont talk to you. I had never known this, but I guess I knew that daddies were like the people who live on the weekends. They were there with you every day, and you couldnt go to them and ask for help.
I guess it makes sense that daddies are like the people that you would want to hang out with every day. I guess I have always kind of wanted to hang out with daddies because the daddies that I have known never have been rude or mean to me. I would feel safe hanging out with them every day.
I actually had to tell DDMA to shut up. I do think it’s important to be aware that daddies don’t talk to you, and that they don’t have the same power as men. It’s not all that bad though. If you’re gonna be in a relationship with a daddie, you probably do need to be aware of this.
It is important to recognize that daddies dont talk to you. It is not necessarily a bad thing, it is sometimes just a reality of life, but it is definitely something to be aware of. I’ve been in situations where I’ve been told I am an “ex-daddy” (not just that I am in my thirties) and I have felt an absolute lack of any sort of control over my own life.
What I usually hear from my daddys is that he will do things to you that you don’t wanna do. Like say that youre going on a date with some chick and you just dont wanna go to the movie. Or when he calls you and you cant talk to him because you want to. Or when he tells you to go over to his place and make him dinner and you dont wanna go over there.
Ive started to get the feeling that all of my daddys really do want me to do these things and they really want me to do them. Ive noticed that I dont have a say in the matter. I even feel kinda weird about the fact that this is somehow my fault.
This is the point where I think I should make a distinction between the normal person and the douchebag (or douchebagette, whatever you want to call it). The douchebagette is the one who does these things because they feel like they have to. They have no choice. But the normal person doesn’t. They dont have to do them because they want to do them. They just feel it’s the right thing to do.