It’s always good to have a moral quandary, to be honest. But, as you can see from the title, you are never truly moral. It could be that you are like a little boy or a little girl, but instead you do not get to know the rules of the game.
The problem is that we are not really a child or a little girl. We are adults and we are living in a world where they do not have a say in the matter. We do not have a say in what we are allowed to do. If your goal is to be someone you are proud of, there are lots of ways you can do that. You could just be a man. You could just be a woman. You could just be a little girl.
You could just be a man pretending to be a woman. Or you could just be a woman pretending to be a man.
You could always just be a man. It’s hard to imagine that anyone could possibly be anything else, but that is exactly how the law is written.