This is a very simple fact that many people don’t think about. If you are not aware that you are currently experiencing one of the most significant and profound shifts in your relationship with reality that you can possibly experience, then you are setting yourself up for a very, very unpleasant experience. To be very blunt, you are setting yourself up to be a zombie.
While we’re not quite sure exactly why this is happening, we might assume that in your current state you are not ready to have a child, and so you are losing interest in your relationship. We’re not saying that this is something that has to happen, but it is extremely likely that this is what will happen sooner rather than later.